tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4952050352237571556.post924644145824643824..comments2023-10-25T08:16:38.782-07:00Comments on Of Horses and Men: On a Positive Note....sidetrackedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16646438998655943806noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4952050352237571556.post-74981363719845863602008-06-10T13:18:00.000-07:002008-06-10T13:18:00.000-07:00Dito what stephanie says! I have also been there k...Dito what stephanie says! I have also been there know what your going thru and this is sound adivice. Two years in realationship hell for me and this after a ten year crap marriage!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4952050352237571556.post-14843813077010090212008-06-10T12:12:00.000-07:002008-06-10T12:12:00.000-07:00Hi there,You did a good job - don't know if I woul...Hi there,<BR/><BR/>You did a good job - don't know if I would've gone over to make sure he was ok (that's what his mother is for), but it looked like you tried your best to help and did not cave. I only worry because even that little bit of contact make moving on with your life more difficult. <BR/><BR/>It re-kindles hope that you'll get back together, making you reluctant to be open to the advances of other men that could really make you happy. I mean really really happy :)<BR/><BR/>If there is a situation like that in the future maybe call his mom and let her know you are concerned for his safety and let her handle him. Then you've done the right while keeping a safe distance at the same time.<BR/><BR/>Guys do that kind of thing - "like being friends with benefits" they have the emotional and sexual support they need without any of the responsibility of maintaining an adult relationship - when you threatened to take that away it really rocked his world. <BR/><BR/>Change for both parties is hard - I hope you continue pulling away from him and move on with your life which could be so much happier right now. <BR/><BR/>If only a short period of time had gone by between the time you took your pills and the time they came back up at you - you can take another set. I know, hard to think of while there is wine on the brain, but for future reference... <BR/><BR/>You remind me of me 8 years ago...and I wish I had made different choices.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00029307154132762913noreply@blogger.com